( ESNUG 575 Item 3 ) ---------------------------------------------- [09/08/17]

Subject: Clever negotiation tips for engineers from Rajeev, Hogan, and Amit 

Wally Rhines, Dean Drako, Aart De Geus, and Joe Costello are arguably the most successful Engineer-CEOs we have had in EDA. And they each have an established multi-decade track record of successfully influencing both large and small audiences. ...

What follows are their insights on persuasive speaking plus a short video clip showing their own unique speaking styles. ...

    - from http://www.deepchip.com/items/0531-03.html


From: [ Gloria Nichols of LaunchM ]

As a follow-on to my earlier article on persuasion skills, let's look at 
engineering and engineering management's negotiation skills.

I ran a blind survey of engineers and engineering management, asking them to
rate themselves as negotiators.  204 responded.
As you can see, they rated themselves highly: three-quarters felt they had
either "good" or "excellent" negotiation skills, with nearly a third rating
themselves as excellent.  This is an analytical group after all.  They are
good at  reasoning through problems in general.

We use negotiation all the time with our families (which movie to watch,
which restaurant to eat at, children's bedtime) and with our work (how
many  resources, when is the deadline, what product features, price
discounts, a promotion).  And those small wins add up over time.  

But what about the big moves? 

This survey asked engineers and engineering management if they had 
experienced a major business or career move in the last 5 years that 
required negotiation.  
More than two-thirds said "yes".

The pivotal question was, how many of these engineers and engineering 
management wished they had negotiated that big move better?
As you can see, half of them had some regrets on how they performed for 
something so important.  

Negotiation skills can be developed.  In that vein, I asked 3 executives
who I knew to be outstanding negotiators if they would share their own
tips on negotiation.

                            
                                  	 
    Rajeev Madhavan           Amit Gupta             Jim Hogan
    Magma founder             President & CEO        Managing Partner
    Clear Ventures GP         Solido Design          Vista Ventures
	
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RAJEEV MADHAVAN, MAGMA & CLEAR VENTURES

    1. Understand your own position first

       Know what your needs from that point in negotiation are; and what
       you are willing to tradeoff.  

       Negotiations are generally highly complex, with several parameters
       to work through.  By thinking through your goals and separating 
       out your most critical needs from the noise, you will be able to
       clearly communicate to the other party what you are seeking.  You 
       will avoid bogging down the discussion with lower priorities and 
       move more quickly to a solid agreement.

    2. Understand the other person's position

       Put yourself in the other person's shoes.  Part of this involves 
       collecting as much information as possible as to what their own
       important needs are.  You can learn this from them directly, and 
       often from outside sources by doing advance research.  

       You will have greater success in focusing the discussion and 
       finding common ground if you understand the other party's 
       priorities as well as your own.  

    3. Strike a win-win relationship

       To me, a successful result from a negotiation means finding a 
       win-win scenario that enables both parties to walk away with pride. 

       Rarely are business negotiations a one-time event.  The vast 
       majority involve laying the groundwork for an ongoing successful 
       relationship.  Further, over time you will build your reputation 
       for collaborating on mutually beneficial deals.  Your career spans
       many decades -- not only will you will frequently find yourself 
       negotiating with the same people on multiple occasions -- but also 
       the reputation you build for yourself will often precede you as
       you enter negotiations with new people.   

Rajeev Madhavan's Background

Rajeev Madhavan is a serial entrepreneur, with his first business in 10th 
grade, running a "comic book rental library" business on his grade school 
bus.  After a successful 9 months, the business was shut down by school 
authorities with a school bus suspension handed down. 

Not to be discouraged, he went on to found Ambit (acquired by CDNS) and then
Magma (went IPO as LAVA, later acquired by SNPS).  He was also one of the
founders of LogicVision (went IPO, acquired by Mentor).  A triple hitter of
founding 3 start-ups later acquired by each one of the Big 3 EDA companies.

Rajeev Madhavan is now a founder and General Partner of Clear Ventures,
where he focuses on early stage technology investments.  He's funded over
35 companies.  He has a BSEE from KREC, Surathkal, India, and an MSEE from
Queen's University, Ontario, Canada.

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AMIT GUPTA, SOLIDO DESIGN

    1. People negotiate with people

       Ultimately, people negotiate with people, so it's important to 
       know as much as possible about who you are negotiating with and
       to keep an open dialog during the negotiation.

       Before you jump into a negotiation, do your research.  For each 
       party, map out their goals, constraints, and their jury of decision 
       makers.  Plus gather any recent comparables relevant to the 
       negotiation, and read any agreements you may already have in place,
       all to determine the framework and positioning of the negotiation.  

       For example, when I negotiated the terms of a follow-on venture 
       capital investment round for my first startup, Analog Design 
       Automation, I started off by reading all agreements we already had
       in place (e.g. shareholders' agreement, subscription agreement, 
       etc.) to understand the rights and obligations of each investor 
       and shareholder.  I researched each investor by talking to legal
       counsel who had experience doing investments with the investor in
       the past, talked to other portfolio companies they invested in, 
       talked to the investors themselves and researched comparable 
       transaction terms and conditions for similar investment 
       transactions made at the time.  

       This allowed me to get a baseline for the negotiation and a sense
       of the negotiation path to closure.  We negotiated an $8 million
       investment round.

    2. Watch for opportunities, because timing matters

       Timing is everything.  What may be a bad deal for the party you 
       are negotiating with one week may quickly turn to a good deal the
       next week due to external factors beyond your control.  It's 
       important to watch for and seize opportunities when they come up.

       One of my customers several years ago was unable to justify the 
       price of our product to the company decision makers based on their
       ROI calculations.  This stalled the negotiation.  However, after
       their silicon run came back with failures which were traced back 
       to bugs our software would have detected, the negotiation quickly
       came back on track, and we closed a purchase order.  

    3. Leverage negotiation momentum and avoid negotiation fatigue

       You can build on the momentum of a negotiation to get to a deal 
       closed quickly and efficiently or, conversely, you can 
       over-negotiate and cause the parties in the negotiation to get 
       frustrated and bail.  So, watch for opportunities to leverage
       negotiation momentum for your benefit, while being careful to 
       prevent negotiation fatigue that will cause frustration and 
       annoyance.  

       My example here is from when I was on the receiving end of a 
       situation where the other party made some missteps.  I had made an
       employment offer to a potential new hire and he had several changes
       he wanted to the employment contract that he outlined at the 
       beginning of the negotiation.  I went through each of these changes
       with him, letting him know what we could and could not do.  

       His tactical error was to then add two more rounds of new request
       for contract changes.  This caused me to experience negotiation 
       fatigue and we never hired him.  Had he outlined all his requests
       in the beginning, so that we could quickly and efficiently go 
       through them all at once, he might have had a successful result.

Amit Gupta's Background

Amit's interest in science and technology began at an early age, winning
the silver medal at the Canada Wide Science Fair for developing a neural
network model of the human ear while in high school.
 
Amit started his first company immediately after undergraduate school, 
founding Analog Design Automation in 1999.  After raising $18 million 
in venture capital funding, he grew the company until its acquisition by 
Synopsys in 2004.

In 2005, he founded Solido Design Automation, a machine learning based
variation-aware design and characterization software company.  In 2016,
Solido was one of the Deloitte Technology Fast 50 winners.

Amit graduated with bachelor degrees in Electrical Engineering and Computer
Science with Great Distinction from the University of Saskatchewan.  He
also serves on the Electronic System Design board, and mentors entrepreneurs
at various stages of company development. 

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JIM HOGAN, VISTA VENTURES

    1. Don't declare unless it advantages you

       The genesis of this rule was from watching engineers give project
       reviews.  The management audience would often would listen, but 
       not talk.  So, the speakers kept talking and dug holes deeper and
       deeper.

       Say what you have to say, then wait for other party to say 
       something.  Otherwise you are negotiating against yourself.  By
       making sure you listen to what they have to say, you can do a 
       better job of understanding their problems, focusing on their top
       criteria, and finding common ground.  Further, you are less likely 
       to give up things that are important to you but not to them.

       Delays are rarely good when negotiating.  Any deal that slows 
       down, runs the risk of faltering.  By finding common ground quick
       helps you get the deal done fast.  

    2. People often the blame the non-present third party

       As you listen to someone express their limitations, they will 
       often cite factors beyond their control, i.e. their manager, 
       their board, their CFO, even "policy" prevents them from making
       a certain concession or going in a specific direction.  

       The first thing to do is try to quantify the roadblock, i.e. what
       exactly can't they do.  Occasionally, the other party will bring 
       up a barrier to closing a deal as a negotiating tactic; if this is
       the case, then your job is to discern and navigate thru the true 
       barriers to the extent you can, to get the deal done.  It's always
       about keeping things moving forward and closing the deal.

    3. Don't take on matters not under your control

       Often other party will present additional reasons why your deal 
       won't work for them, some of which don't directly relate to you.  

       Deals are complicated enough, so it is important keep the 
       parameters simple and set boundaries -- there are some things you
       simply can't help them with.  E.g. they may say they do not have
       enough budget.  You can be flexible on terms but you must still be
       paid at the end of the day.  

       The overarching goal of the negotiation is a win-win, or, at the 
       very least, something both parties can live with.  There is a 
       difference between taking on their problems as your own, versus
       understanding their constraints and collaborating on a creative
       way to make it work within them, while maintaining some boundaries
       of ownership.  

    4. Know when to walk

       Sometimes the other party will walk away from the deal.  Don't 
       give up right away.  Sometimes it's a tactic, sometimes it's a 
       misunderstanding about a specific constraint.  Do your due 
       diligence -- if you know someone related to the deal with whom
       you can speak to learn if there is still an opening, then do so.

       Although it is far easy and better if you can close the deal 
       sooner rather than later, sometimes it is just not the right time.
       I find that about 50% of the time, it can be revisited and the 
       situation may change in a year.  

       One of the most powerful negotiating skills is to truly know your
       own parameters.  If you can't find common ground, then sometimes 
       you must just walk away from a deal.  

       Walking away is not a tactic; only do it if you are truly serious.
       However, it is better to move forward than focus on a deal that is
       not going to work.  In the end, life goes on, and there is always
       another deal.

Jim Hogan's Background

Another early entrepreneur, Jim paid for almost all his lunches through high
school, by helping other students with extra credit math problems.  This 
trade could be cash for a school lunch, or if their mother made a 
particularly good lunch, that was fair barter, too.

Jim's early EE career was at National Semiconductor and Philips, where he
eventually becoming an engineering director, he established their device
physics laboratories globally.  

At Cadence, he was an Executive Fellow, President of Cadence Japan, 
Corporate Vice President of Marketing, and Corporate Vice President for 
Field Operations.  He held 15 different executive jobs while at CDNS.

Jim is currently the managing partner of Vista Ventures, LLC, where he 
serves as chairman.  Jim was a general partner at Telos Venture Partners
and senior VP of biz dev at Artisan, now part of ARM Holdings PLC.

Jim holds a BA in mathematics, a BSCS, and an M.B.A from San Jose State
University.  He worked swing shift in a machine shop through all his
undergraduate years.

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WIN-WIN NEGOTIATIONS VS. THE PRISONERS' DILEMMA

Often in negotiation role-play exercises, including one Harvard Business 
School ran at a recent class reunion, people are given some variation of the
"Prisoners' Dilemma".  The way it works, according to Wikipedia:  

   "Two members of a criminal gang are arrested and imprisoned.  Each 
    prisoner is in solitary confinement with no means of speaking to or 
    exchanging messages with the other.  The police admit they don't have
    enough evidence to convict the pair on the principal charge.  They 
    plan to sentence both to a year in prison on a lesser charge.

    Simultaneously, the police offer each prisoner a bargain.  Each 
    prisoner is given the opportunity either to betray the other, by 
    testifying that the other committed the crime, or to cooperate with
    the other by remaining silent.  Here's how it goes:

        - If A and B both betray the other, each of them serves 2
          years in prison

        - If A betrays B but B remains silent, A will be set free
          and B will serve 3 years in prison (and vice versa)

        - If A and B both remain silent, both of them will only 
          serve 1 year in prison (on the lesser charge)

    Because betraying a partner offers a greater reward than cooperating
    with them, all purely rational self-interested prisoners would betray
    the other, and so the only possible outcome for two purely rational
    prisoners is for them to betray each other.  It's implied that the
    prisoners will have no opportunity to reward or punish their partner
    other than the prison sentences they get, and that their decision 
    won't affect their reputation in future."

        - from Wikipedia on the Prisoner's Dilemma

In real life, negotiation doesn't have a fixed ending as this does.  Most of 
us will cross paths multiple times.  Thus, pursuing the collective interest
of the group -- i.e. the "win-win" -- can also be the only chance for either 
party to make any gains.

    - Gloria Nichols
      LaunchM                              Woodside, CA

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   Gloria Nichols does VP/CMO and digital marketing consulting. She's consulted for 47 EDA companies, including the executives above. She did product marketing at Cadence for static timing and signal integrity. Gloria has an MBA from Harvard Business School, and a BS in Engineering from Stanford University.
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